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Essential oils have been used throughout history to increase sensuality and passion by helping provide a lovely ambience, relieve emotional exhaustion and even increase libido.

Classes happen every Tuesday night at 8pm CST, live on Facebook and Instagram, then uploaded to my YouTube Channel on Wednesday along with the class notes on the blog.

Guess what?! You can use essential oils in the bedroom all three ways, aromatically, topically and internally, if you want! If you’re using essential oils on more sensitive areas, you’ll want to make sure you dilute the oils a little bit more than you normally would.

Set the Mood

Set up your bedroom diffuser ahead of time to Get in the Mood. One drop each of the following: Cinnamon Bark, Hawaiian Sandalwood, Ylang Ylang, Patchouli, Rosemary, Siberian Fir

cinnamon bark, Hawaiian sandalwood, ylang ylang, patchouli, rosemary, Siberian fir

Wear your essential oils as a purefume throughout the day! Passion, Whisper, Ylang Ylang, Clary Sage, Cinnamon Bark and Jasmine are great options! To enhance your emotional connection, use Rose and Neroli.

Siberian fir, whisper, passion
anthropology: pink pepper, Siberian fir, grapefruit, tangerine
beautiful: frankincense, clary sage, grapefruit, lemon, wild orange, bergamot
femme l'ovin':  siberian fir, whisper, passion
superwoman: clary sage, lavender, cedarwood, geranium, ylang ylang


  • Passion: feeling sexy
  • Ylang Ylang: aphrodisiac, hormone balancer
  • Clary Sage: arousing, hormone balancing
  • Hawaiian Sandalwood: boost male libido
  • Male libido boosting blend – 2-3 drops each: Clary Sage & Ylang Ylang; internally veggie cap twice a day
  • Female libido boosting blend – 3-4 drops each: Clary Sage, Whisper, Ylang Ylang; apply to bottoms of feet and wrists 2x/day

In the Moment Blends

Mix up your bedroom oils ahead of time in a 2 oz dropper bottle for convenience! Nobody wants to be opening 5 bottles of oil while in the middle of a makeout session ??

Ecstasy Extender

That Tingle

Massage where you want to feel or taste the warming and cooling effect. You can also use Peppermint or Slim & Sassy under your tongue

Aphrodisiac Massage Blend – to increase connection and arousal

  • ¼ cup FCO = 2oz dropper bottle
  • 2 drops Geranium
  • 3 drops Sandalwood
  • 2 drops Ylang Ylang
  • 3 drops Clary Sage
  • Combine in 2 oz dropper bottle, top off with FCO

Find past classes here!